All The Single Ladies

All The Single Ladies


Why Hello, Sweethearts


     Oh Valentine's day! A day of love, caring, and cherishing your loved ones....Unless you're single like me. Then it's a day of chocolate, ice cream, and a marathon of romance movies. It may seem sad, but I actually love being single on Valentine's day. Instead of having to go on some kind of cliché date at an over booked restaurant, I get to stay home, dig into a pile of 50% off chocolates and let my heart break over romances that I will most likely never have. It's quite fun, actually. So instead of going on and on about the perfect date, and how hot my imaginary boyfriend is, let's talk about how we don't need no man, or woman to be happy! We can simply be happy and free!


   Even though todays society may seem to tell us that you need a partner to be happy it's not true. We can all survive perfectly fine independently. Take myself for example! I have been single, and proud for about 3 years. Not because I can't get a guy, but because I don't need one. And to tell you the truth these 3 years have been some of the happiest years of my life! I've got great friends, great grades, and no worries what so ever. It kind of reminds me of a post a saw on Facebook. 'Being single doesn't mean you're weak. It just means you're strong enough to wait for what we deserve.' and you, my friends deserve only the best. So please don't treat being single like it's a bad thing. It just means we are waiting for some one who will treat us like we're their everything.


  Now I will admit, I am being a slight hypocrite right now. Why, you may ask? Because I'm a complete hopeless romantic that's why! I believe in 'soul mates' and 'love at first sight' and all that crap! I don't really cry at romance movies, but my heart literally aches! For example, I was watching my one of my favorite romance movies, 'What's Your Number?', and screamed at the T.V. because of how clueless the female lead was, then squealed like the teenage girl I am when they finally got together. I love classic love stories! I get so happy when someone finally finds their perfect someone. It kind makes you wish you had a love like that of your own. But you just got to remember that you will find it someday. And if you already found your other half, congratulations! You've found the true love of your life, if you could be so kind to tell me just how you did that, that'd be wonderful!


Anyways, all the roses and paper hearts away, love is a very fragile thing, that I'm sure we'll all find eventually. Until then don't be ashamed of being strong and independent. Enjoy life as it is, and be happy!


With lots of hugs,


The Nerdy Blogger


P.S. QUOTE OF THE POST: I know that I'm not perfect, and I want to be with some one who appreciates me. ~Ally Darling, What's Your Number

Happy New Year!!!

Happy New Year, Dearies!


    
       Welcome to the 2016 world of my blog! I know this post is more then a little delayed, seeing how it's now February, but I am still going to remind you all of your New Year's resolutions, and tell you about mine. So lets pull back out those party hats, and noise makers, cause this may get a little crazy!




     Ah, New Year's resolutions! We put all of our hopes and dreams into this one goal, and tell ourselves that it will last for the rest of the year. Only for it to go completely down hill within 2 weeks. I actually attempted to do this myself this year. I told myself I was going to loose all the weight I could, and get into shape for basketball season. I was right into it! I downloaded the 'Fitness Plus' app, it let's you track how many calories you need to eat and loose to reach your goal weight. All I simply had to do was record what I eat, how much I ate of it, pretty easy. I also added the 'S Work It' workout app.




      All had been well, then I hit my first weak day. I was at my Grandmother's, and she decided I needed to eat a pre supper snack, then a full course meal, and then dessert. It was so sooo good, and I couldn't say no to my Grandma! Everything went South from there. I had stopped working out, and stopped tracking my calories, but still played basketball every week.




     And do you know what? I'm perfectly okay with that! So screw New Year's resolutions! I'm just going to enjoy being me, just the way I am...or was...whatever! If any body out there actually have stuck to there promises to themselves, I applaud you. Because it's a lot harder then I thought it would it be.


Any how, that's it for now, Ciao!


The Nerdy Blogger


P.S. QUOTE OF THE POST!!! Wake up with determination. Go to bed with satisfaction. ~Anonymous